A private way to say what you're both wanting to.
Select your desires privately. We only ever reveal what matches — unless you choose to share everything.
What it is
Wanting To is a private space for partners to explore what they're each open to — without the awkwardness of bringing it up first. Everyone privately marks what they're into; the app only ever shows what you both already agree on. Nothing is ever shared, matched, or acted on without every person involved choosing to.
How it works
1. Create a private, anonymous profile — no real name required.
2. Pick from a categorized list of desires, marked red / yellow / green.
3. Connect with a partner using a one-time invite code.
4. See only where you match — consent is always asked for, every time.